Last night i came home late. My wife was upstairs, preparing for bed, unusually early, ( before 10 pm!, the TV was left cold) donning a nice navy outfit, and what I immediately noticed, some very nice large earrings in white gold. That was new, and encouraging. She seems to tap into secondary reinforcers. We had a nice talk, lots of cuddling and minor differences. I got one remark that warned me to slow down, and my hinting on some lip service was not welcome. She emphasized that I could not expect the scorecard to change that rapidly in the future. So, a small clash there. But not serious, more like a reminder and caution.
This morning a woke up early. Repeated "cramps in the leg", and it would not go away. Around 8 am she woke up. we then had a nice cuddly morning, none of us had a hurry, yesterday night was gone, I was dribling and there she was again, demanding! I cannot explain why, is this sublimation? Anyhow, to be allowed yet another time to elevate my wife into the bliss-zone feels like a priviledge. She came like a steam engine. Thereafter some more talk about what my part of the deal was, and that her part is to keep stoking the boiler. Agreement. We also discussed the place DD would have. I actually long for some maintenance in that department, just to realize even more what a firm, respectable, desirable authority my wife is. And playful.
By the way: Whereas many blogs are certainly fiction, this is actually a precice log with notes what happens with the psyche in a relation where WLM is tested. Neither me, her nor anyone knows yet. But it will be nice to look back when we have spent more time in it. So far, so good.
By the way: How do I include pictures in thos blog template? Anyone can explain? there might be need for illustrations.
This morning a woke up early. Repeated "cramps in the leg", and it would not go away. Around 8 am she woke up. we then had a nice cuddly morning, none of us had a hurry, yesterday night was gone, I was dribling and there she was again, demanding! I cannot explain why, is this sublimation? Anyhow, to be allowed yet another time to elevate my wife into the bliss-zone feels like a priviledge. She came like a steam engine. Thereafter some more talk about what my part of the deal was, and that her part is to keep stoking the boiler. Agreement. We also discussed the place DD would have. I actually long for some maintenance in that department, just to realize even more what a firm, respectable, desirable authority my wife is. And playful.
By the way: Whereas many blogs are certainly fiction, this is actually a precice log with notes what happens with the psyche in a relation where WLM is tested. Neither me, her nor anyone knows yet. But it will be nice to look back when we have spent more time in it. So far, so good.
By the way: How do I include pictures in thos blog template? Anyone can explain? there might be need for illustrations.
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