So it has been decided: A later
date for celebration of the initial (break in) period of enforced chastity is set.
As said on Friday
my wife was not very happy with my comment, and used that to cancel our
appointment. But the fact that we are both occupied (work) separated from each
other for many days until last third of November is probably also a major
reason: We both want the release data to be special and not something to be
hurried.
The picture is found on internet. I am
unsure who to credit. Wery nice
CD by the way. Anyone knows the producer?
So this means that I in fact will have to live through the "90-day period" that has been defended and advocated by several wives that seen to be into this. A 90 day period is quite something, especially at the outset. Of course I long for some real good fulfilled sexual feelings, not just teasing. On the other hand I felt that 60 days of confinement was not a full therapeutic period. To quit after 61 days would have felt like not been given chance to fulfil what was recommended.
unsure who to credit. Wery nice
CD by the way. Anyone knows the producer?
So this means that I in fact will have to live through the "90-day period" that has been defended and advocated by several wives that seen to be into this. A 90 day period is quite something, especially at the outset. Of course I long for some real good fulfilled sexual feelings, not just teasing. On the other hand I felt that 60 days of confinement was not a full therapeutic period. To quit after 61 days would have felt like not been given chance to fulfil what was recommended.
Now that is out of
the way. We have been given more days, more evenings to develop further a
relation where my wife becomes more and more confident in her role as the Head
of the House, more confident in issuing orders and expectations, more confident
in deciding what matters to her, and what not.
The 90 days will ideally
be long enough for both of us to develop habits, routines and mindsets that
makes things run more on auto, more natural and less cerebral.
I still feel I
need more of her firm hand, more conversations, more pressure and more
feedback/ conditioning such as rewards (again conversation is powerful) and
punishments, and a touch of humiliation. I think "How To Set Up An
FLR" by Georgia Ivey Green has some very good chapters that is
helpful in putting things into perspective and useful everyday tips.
As for
humiliation, that is tricky. A lot is written about humiliation, but from an
American cultural perspective. Not everything works the same way in
Scandinavia. The taboos seems less, the tolerance ("not wrong, just
different") somewhat larger. But then again, I think what my wife SAYS when
involving med in possibly humiliating acts is probably what may make it embarrassing
and thus makes it stick!
To illustrate: She
ordered a pegging scene Friday evening. As I understand, this should be
very difficult for many men. I have to report that it is pleasurable, good for
certain glands, and no: Not the slightest humiliating. Hmmm...?
The picture is found on internet. I am unsure who to credit. Wery nice CD by the way. Anyone knows the producer?
